In her latest book, Alone Together, the MIT technology guru, Sherry Turkle, reminds us that we’re “tethered by technology.” She describes how teens today have grown up with parents who texted with one hand and pushed their swings with another. Their parents drove them to school while talking on the phone and they sat in the back seat watching Disney videos. One college freshman told her that her father read Harry Potter to her while often on his Blackberry. They grew up with parents physically close but whose attention was always “elsewhere.”
Floods bring one’s attention up close and personal. There is no “elsewhere” when you watch raging waters climb closer and closer. Everything becomes starkly present. And it’s coming right at you!
But thanks to cell phones and Facebook pages (where there actually was cell phone access and people could power up their computers) in three short weeks, communities came together in Vermont in ways our ancestors would have appreciated and found admirable. After all, Vermont has always been the hotbed of technology innovation—visit the St. Johnsbury museum if you don’t believe me.
Many of us remember talking to Howard Dean, our former Vermont governor and presidential hopeful, about how his young staffers were creating ways to reach individuals by using the Internet. He invented the ground-up campaign. Many of these young geeks are now millionaires—and some of them recently re-entered Vermont’s flood-plains to help. As a result, my neighboring village had a website up and running within hours of the flood and the next weekend, 1000 volunteers showed up with shovels. Blogs appeared faster than you could say “help us.” One comment that I’ll never forget was from a farm family: “We need pails. We have nothing to put our milk in.”
Independent Vermonters have always known how to use their technology, from sharing skidders in the woods to blowing conch shells from their front porches to call the neighbors to a party. Many Vermonters own heavy equipment; many just built their own roads. Some neighbors in another close-by ravaged area latched extension ladders together so people could climb up and out of a canyon that had trapped them. Others cut a hole in the freeway fence so they and their neighbors could get in and out. They didn’t wait for “them,” the uniformed helpers because "they" were either elsewhere or beyond calling. With one “Irene-strength fell swoop,” Them became Us.
“We,” like the stalwart volunteers of St. Paul’s Episcopal church in White River Junction, made well over 4,000 sandwiches and put them in lunch bags to go out all over our ravaged valley so volunteers had something eat. Some bags actually had little hand sanitzers! “We” collected clothes. “We” cooked community dinners. “We” helped each other get back and forth when there really wasn’t a “back” or a “forth” for many. “We” shared chain saws and generators. "We" organized relief fund-raisers. “We,” like the folks who latched extension ladders together to get people out of a canyon where they had become trapped, became very creative. Some local technical college kids, for instance, quickly rigged up a solar powered battery for a trapped family without power.
But most of all, we’ve learned that walking from door to door and actually talking to people, is the best way of being a good neighbor. We've learned that when, like one man in our nearby town who reached an elderly woman whose house was gone, all we need do sometimes is set up a chair and say, "Here. This is your space now. All you have to do is sit here. We'll do the rest."
Now that the realities of FEMA have dawned on most people severely affected, they know that they will need to find new ways of coping. They might have to find new ways of building in new places, that may not completely replicate their old ones.
But like Emily Dickenson’s, a bird now perches in my heart singing songs of hope. I believe our new ways of being together will be smarter and in the long run, better for our planet. Some of us have now tasted the experience of being not “alone together” but “together!” And we won’t let that go.









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